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Hookie Hope

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MourningToday is Hookie Hope Day, according to the Virginia governor. For mourners of the VT tradgedy, orange and maroon is the color of the day. Apparently VT officials sent around a memo yesterday stating students did not have to participate. So what, right?

Well today, parents and Alumni groups are "outraged" now because of VT's memo they claim discourages people from mourning.

What?

Do people honestly have nothing else to do but FIND fault, find a fight, find something to complain about? This was intended to be a day of support, solidarity, and mourning for the victims, friends, and family. Does that mean that everyone HAS to wear orange and maroon? The faculty was obviously letting kids know that if they were uncomfortable participating, it wasn't mandatory.

Free Speech is extremely important (in fact, it's what keeps people coming back to my blog..haha), but does every Tom, Dick, and Harry really need to behave as though their world is ending based on the behavior of others? We can disagree all we want; our opinions are just as valid as the next person...but stop and THINK about what people intended to say, or actually have said before we blow up and turn things like a positive attempt at beginning the healing process, into a media circus all because of some ridiculous statement that has NOTHING to do with your personal choice to mourn the victims of this tragedy.

People never cease to amaze me at the lengths they will go to just to end up looking like an idiot.

~Dubya

Wendy said:
 
Dubya - I agree absolutely, that memo was nothing more than to tell students they were NOT required to wear the school colors today. What if someone's personal preferences lean to wearing black in mourning (as many people's do?). If they did not send out that memo, and one person shows up wearing black, I am (unfortunately) sure they would be singled out for not showing support for this tragedy. Each person needs to mourn in their own way, and placing stipulations on someones mourning is counter-productive. For people to get mad because the university let it's students know that they were free to mourn how they wanted, to me it is just ridiculous... How are you helping the situation at all by doing something like that? And now, what you have done, is make any student on that campus who did not wear colors today feel even worse than they probably already do - great job!
 
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lindainks55 said:
 

In this morning's Eagle a caller to Opinion Line (the one where really brave idiots may call anonymously and leave their comments) said,

"Is anybody else in the city of Wichita bothered by loud, obnoxious people who feel they have to laugh as loudly as possible so everbody can hear them?"

Don't you just guess that caller is a barrel of laughs and fun!??? Why don't those who seemingly must find something to complain about stay home where they might not be objected to life? (shaking head...)
 
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lindainks55 said:
 
Sorry, an uncheck post. Somebody should complain about me. I'm losing what little I had left...
 
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Vaughn Tolle said:
 
Dubya, I couldn't agree with you more. What it appears to me is that the objecting parents and alumni have their nose out of joint, because it's been permitted by the University for students to mourn in a way not in the way said parents and alumni want them to. Sheesh....
 
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tracyaphillips said:
 
I thought they were Hokies, not Hookies?
 
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rm6046 said:
 
It would seem to me that the bereaved parents/alumni are "lashing out" in anger, an acceptable and inevitable consequence of the grief process -- anger at the perpetrator, the institution, the security response (or lack of it), the mental health revolving door ... and ironically, even at the victims themselves -- "the how could they leave me like this" syndrome. These people truly believe they are going insane, when, in fact, their behavior is absolutely normal and to be expected.

The memo could just as easily said that today is, "Go kill a Korean Day -- students are invited to join in. Those who wish to express their grief in other ways may do as they chose." The outcries of anger would be little different than those we are hearing today.
 
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lindainks55 said:
 
Difficult to expect normal behavior in an abnormal situation. What ever in the world normal is...

If I remember rm, you lost a duaghter and a wife. You probably have insight into the difficulties these people are facing.
 
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rm6046 said:
 
Yes, Linda, that is correct. I surely hope I learned & gained some insight for those tragedies. Certainly, at least, the part of "going insane", since, at the time, surely there could be no other explanation.
 
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WSClark said:
 
No to sound cold or uncaring, but I wish there was as much outrage over the deaths of our soldiers in Iraq as there has been regarding VTech. I am as disgusted as anyone about this tragedy. These were fine young men and women that were killed by a loser that slipped through the floorboards of society. The fact that he managed to escaped serious notice is disconcerting to say the least.

Perhaps it is just an irony, but we have lost almost exactly 100 times as many in Iraq as were lost on that campus.

As a nation, we should mourn the losses at VTech, but we should at least mourn the losses in Iraq with equal grief.


 
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lindainks55 said:
 
Not to mention the completely innocent Iraqi people who are killed in bush's misbegotten war. Not part of any insurgency, not soldiers, just people trying to live their lives. What's that number up to nowadays? We hardly ever hear about them.

What happened at VTech is sad beyond words, but isolated. What happens in Iraq happens day after day with no end in sight.
 
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sunbefree said:
 
What is an wichita eagle?

Virginia Tech was very sad. :(
War is very sad. :(
 
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lindainks55 said:
 
It's a newspaper.

Welcome to Wichita Voice. This blog and the newspaper have the cities name.

Where are you from?
 
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sunbefree said:
 
Hi lindainks55! Thank you for the Welcome. I live in a small town in Oklahoma. Where are you at?
 
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sunbefree said:
 
Oh! haha! duh on me. I get in now about the name. I'm at my Grams near Derby right now. I should have figure it out, sorry.
 
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